Lilith Fair Controversy: What Does “Pro-Woman” Mean?

What is a "pro-woman" organization? That question was addressed this week by the organizers of Lilith Fair, the music festival featuring exclusively female artists, set to return this year after a decade-long hiatus. However, when fans of the festival were asked to vote online for the charities who would receive grants from Lilith Fair, many feminist fans were shocked to discover that, despite the inclusion of two pro-choice groups on the list of possible charities, several crisis pregnancy centers (CPCs) with an explicitly anti-choice agenda were also part of the list.

Interviews with Terry McBride, co-founder of Lilith Fair, suggested that the festival was unaware of the anti-choice history behind the CPCs. In fact, McBride basically stated that a quick search for "woman-focused" or "pro-woman" organizations with federal tax ID numbers was what yielded the list of CPCs on the Choose Your Charity list, rather than an ideological agenda. After an outcry online, including a Facebook  group that boasted more than 1,000 members, most of the CPCs were removed from the list, along with one of the pro-choice groups, NARAL Pro-Choice North Carolina.

Once I heard that the inclusion of CPCs was likely due to a "pro-woman" web search, my first thought was that that mistake is a pretty easy one to make. After all, most CPCs frame their mission as supporting pregnant women or women facing unplanned pregnancies. Out of context, that’s a pretty pro-woman message. The problem is that their support is predicated on providing women with misleading and false information about abortion, birth control, and other critical sexual and reproductive health topics.

If all CPCs did was offer support and health care to women who had already made the choice to continue their pregnancies to term, it would probably be fair to term them "pro-woman." (For that matter, if all pro-lifers did was support women who had made the choice to continue a pregnancy and battle for more resources for pregnant women and adoption services, the "abortion issue" would not be nearly as contentious.) It’s the exclusion of information, which carries with it the suggestion that those who run the centers "know what’s best" for the women who come to them for support, that makes them quite explicitly anti-woman. (The fact that most CPCs do not clearly state that they do not provide abortion services or contraception makes it easy to assume that they lack an agenda. Alas, it’s a pretty successful marketing tactic.) Pro-choice reproductive health centers, such as the Feminist Women’s Health Center in Atlanta that remains on the charity list, offer a range of information and support systems to expectant mothers, and are only interested in ensuring that women have all the resources available to execute the best choice they can make for themselves, be it to carry the pregnancy to term or to terminate it.

That Lilith Fair is now lamenting the involvement of "politics" in the charity selection shows that the organizers need a much better grasp of the implications of anti-choice and pro-choice reproductive health agendas. Unfortunately, only one is actually "pro-woman."

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  • Lilith

    It is so pathetic that what passes for feminism today relies on the strange double-speak and absolutism that used to describe its opponents. Characterizing all crisis pregnancy centers as “anti-choice” liars, as you do, screams desperation and pettiness. God forbid that there might be some people who like LilithFair’s musical offerings who don’t necessarily support abortion in all cases. Or know of a good CPC in their area that deserves support and should not be tarred with the stupid epithet of “anti-woman.” Instead you strike out to enforce the orthodoxy.

  • Meg

    Lilith,

    Thank you for your comment. I also recognize that there is often evident dogmatism in discussions about abortion, and it is important to recognize nuance in the debate. To that end, I tried to make it clear in my post that I do not oppose all of the work done by CPCs. Maternal/pre-natal care and adoption support services, for instance, are worthy causes regardless of one’s views on abortion. Once women have made the choice to carry the pregnancy to term, I am without question in favor of providing them with the support and services they need. As I stated in my post, my main objection to CPCs is the fact that many of them provide false or at best misleading information about abortion and birth control, and some are not forthcoming about what services they do or do not provide. I believe that denying women information (as well as false advertising) is indeed anti-choice. Women have a right to know their options and choose what’s best for them.

    The unique twist in the Lilith Fair situation is that (a) as a secular and traditionally pro-choice organization, fans were surprised to see groups included who explicitly opposed abortion and/or had a religious affiliation, and (b) when confronted by fans, the organizers did not seem well-informed at all about the missions/ideologies of the groups they included. That is, I think, where the heart of the criticism of Lilith Fair’s actions lies: if the organization intends to distribute grant money through ticket sales, it should do more than cursory research of the groups on its list of potential recipients and clearly inform potential contributors of their mission and activities.

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