"You were raped? Congratulations!" Of the many things you can say to some who just shared with you they were raped – that is not one sentiment I, or most people, would choose. But one seller on Etsy has chosen just those sentiments. In a variety of offensive and just disgusting cards available, one is […]
Recent blog posts written by Maggie Arden
Never Ask a Woman Her Age
Never ask a woman her age or weight. Is that still a rule? It’s hard to tell. It would be hard for me to tell, as I’m asked my age almost monthly. The shocked look people have when I tell them I am 28 is also unpleasant. And unnecessary. As an old rule of etiquette […]

Rally For Girls Sports
Rally for Girls Sports Day was yesterday. So to begin – I clearly should have done this yesterday. I’m sorry. As an athlete for much of my young life, I know the benefits of playing team sports. I never occurred to me while playing soccer, basketball, softball and volleyball that I was lucky to be […]
Last Names
I showed up late to a meeting recently, and introduced myself to everyone. I was promptly asked what my maiden name was. When I repeated what I’d just said I was given an odd look, which I returned with an odd look. Thinking about it later, I realized, at 28, people may well expect that […]
Thankful to the 25 Most Powerful Women
Thanksgiving has never been a favorite holiday of mine. I’m thankful for many things, and take time to consider them this time of year. But eating huge amounts of food – most of which I just am not a big fan of – is lost on me. Last week Time magazine put out a list […]
Chivalry and Feminism?
Chivalry. Feminism. Chivalry and feminism. Can those words go together? Are they two completely unrelated ideas that can really co-exist? I question myself on this at times. The other day I struggled outside my office building trying close my umbrella, while keeping my all important coffee cup upright, hang onto my bags and get through […]
Another Year Without Paycheck Fairness
We have come so far over the past 50 years, and yet the road stretches out in front of us beyond the horizon. How it is that, in the 21st century, paycheck fairness can be so difficult to pass? And why, oh why, did women vote against it? I was once asked why it matters […]
Single Seeking Flex Schedules
Flexible schedules are all the rage now. Or so you’d think if you were looking for a job – it’s listed as a benefit in many job ads. Almost anything written about Millennials or Gen Y (or whatever you want to call us) mentions our work ethic. We want to work from home once in […]
Where Are All the Women?
With my first post, I head back to my roots if you will. I spent four years working on political campaigns. After transitioning to the nonprofit world I gained free time, hobbies, and saw the return of my friends. When not working I make jewelry, read constantly, and explore my amazing city. I am a […]