As I reread my words, my stomach churns. I do not wish to offend the women who came before me, the women who beat, pounded, and broke down the doors now open to my generation. Instead, I wish to honor their efforts!

Despite this, I still find the label difficult to grasp, and I find I am not alone. Numerous studies, polls and research abound regarding this question. Gloria Pan recently referenced a study highlighting that only 20% of women are willing to use the word ‘feminist.’ In addition, Elizabeth Suter and Paige Toller wrote, “Gender role and feminism revisited: a follow-up study.” The article cites that most academic research proves the same point: the majority of women and even men identify themselves as feminists; however, they are unwilling to accept the label.

I admit; I fall into this category. I also need to admit I am a newcomer to the feminist movement. I desire women’s leadership and empowerment, yet I am queasy and unsure of the terminology, and, therefore, have been unsure of how to "dive in," so to speak.

When I have spoken to friends about Feminism2.0, both men and women, I seem to meet silence. I know they do not wish to offend me, yet they are envisioning the media’s rendition of a feminist and do not know what to say. It is not until I continue with "women’s empowerment and leadership" that they nod their heads in understanding.

I believe it is this common misunderstanding that is at the core of any movement’s effectiveness, and though many in my generation do use the words "women’s empowerment and leadership," please know we are all pursuing the same mission. We are simply using different words.

I think my generation is looking for opportunities to mentor, to volunteer, and to empower other women, without fear of being mislabeled or stereotyped. Shouldn’t the focus be on our common goal rather than the rhetoric we disagree on?

I believe true change lies in women supporting one another, and this is my hope in attending Feminism2.0. Although I may question the name "Feminism," the name holds great respect, admiration and weight, as it is the pinnacle of women’s leadership and empowerment many women are yearning for today. The feminist movement has been truly transformative, and the group of women who will gather in DC are women whom I greatly admire. Above all, I wish to learn from them.

Although I am still a bit leery of the term, "feminist," the meaning behind it is far more important. My only request is to please acknowledge my struggle, this gnawing I have, and to understand that I do support you, though I may simply leave out the name. Should I do so, please accept me anyway. We have the same mission; we’re simply using different words.