Violence against women is serious. And it seems to be discussed everywhere lately. So why is all the talk about Charlie Sheen focused on the crazy things he’s been saying and not on the women he has abused and threatened. I missed the beginning, or the beginning of the end (it is coming to an [...]
Women and Weddings: How Much Should We Really Care?
These days, I cannot escape the subject of weddings. I’m at the point in my 20s when lots of friends are becoming engaged. The royal wedding is in the papers and on the news. The BBC just ran a photo essay on extreme weddings. Last night, the subject of “bridezillas” came up in conversation. We’ve [...]
Why Does Jon Kly Hate Women?
This piece was cross-posted at Pundit Mom. In light of Jon Kyl’s ongoing outrageous public comments, I’ve come to the conclusion that the junior Senator from Arizona must hate women. Odds are that unless you live in Arizona, you either don’t know or don’t pay a lot of attention to Kyl, but he’s gotten some [...]
What about this weekend
Reading Materials: It is always hard to accept that your parents are getting older. How you will take care of them and how you will face the realities of aging. Pat MacEnulty and Tamara Titus in their new book "This is the Way We say Goodbye" are trying to explore how you can keep the [...]
The Time is Now!
I read three interesting posts on Forbeswoman all looking at women and professional success. While I focused on woman in politics in my post last week, women are still struggling in the male dominated business world. We are penalized financially for getting married and having children. A look at how women should dress for success, [...]
Online and Offline Communities: Part Three
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about feminist communities. Why do we join them, and what do they do for us? Should we even discuss them in these terms? And what do online communities provide, as opposed to those in “real life?” I found myself drawn into the online community before I made any moves [...]
The Value of Equal Pay Day for Men
Every time I bring up Equal Pay Day (or Unequal Pay Day as I prefer to think of it), some idiot (usually an unenlightened man) lectures me about women’s choices. Women choose careers that allow them to be with their kids more, so of course they get paid less overall, as a group. Now, let’s [...]
HOW TO “FEMINIZE” A MAN
Did you hear the one about the feminist who took a man’s advice on how to make more feminists? Wait, let me back up a minute. I’m Joe, and I’m a man. Like many men, deep down I am a good person. I think the world should be fair, safe, and full of opportunity for [...]
Teaching Boys Feminism
Each year, boys sign up for my high school course on feminism (photo, Ileana Jiménez) When I was in college, I always thought that teaching girls about feminism was my life’s calling. It turns out that teaching boys about feminism has made that calling even more profound. In the past three years, I have taught [...]
Dessert before dinner: GOP/Tea Party Holding U.S. Government Hostage Over Title X
As I’m sure you’ve all heard, its extremely likely that the U.S. Federal Government will be shut down if Congress does not agree upon and vote on a budget (H.R. 1) for the fiscal year. All throughout the day I’ve been getting news alerts saying they are close to a compromise . . . I’m [...]


